Engagement Ring Guide: 5 Insider Secrets To Buying The Perfect Ring

💍 5 Tips To Choosing The Perfect Ring

Shopping for an engagement ring can be surprisingly overwhelming. You think, “this should be one of the happiest times of my life”, but in reality it can become very stressful. There’s many reasons for this; budget, emotions, societal pressures, practical reasons, and more. Your wedding is a major event and we want to do our part, not just by providing exceptional jewelry, but by also giving you tips on how to ease some of the most common pressures, missteps, and misconceptions when shopping for engagement rings. We know there are a lot of options and shopping for the perfect jewels takes skill, so we’ve provided you with a short guide to engagement ring shopping. Here is what we feel are the most important tips to getting your dream ring!

1. Size Isn’t Everything, Comfort and Style Matter More

Many brides admit they got caught up in carat size or trends, only to later realize the ring didn’t suit their lifestyle or taste long-term. Rings with high settings may snag on clothes or feel bulky. Try on different styles in person and consider how it feels and is it practical for your lifestyle, rather than simply how it looks.

💭 Is it practical for your lifestyle? Consider your daily activities — nurses, athletes, and artists may want to try low-set or bezel settings for comfort + durability.

2. You Can Customize And It Doesn’t Have to Cost More

A lot of brides didn’t realize they could tweak an existing design. Kiesh offers things like changing the band, swapping out the stone, mixing metals, etc… without starting from scratch or breaking the budget. Customization is more accessible now than ever.

🔑 Tip: If a fully custom ring is not the route you choose to go, ask your jeweler about semi-custom options.

3. Get the Ring Insured IMMEDIATELY!

You do not want to learn the hard way. 

Engagement rings often get lost, damaged, or stolen as soon as the honeymoon. Homeowners/renters insurance may not cover such a high ticket item automatically. Separate jewelry insurance is inexpensive and worth the peace of mind.

🔑 Tip: Insure the ring as soon as you leave the store or receive it. All Kiesh Jewelry items come with an included appraisal of your stones, making it easy for the insurance company to quickly insure your jewelry.

4. There Is A Skill Behind Buying Diamonds

Many engaged couples go in looking for something that will “just speak to them”, but there is a trick to buying diamonds. Learn the 4C’s: Cut, Color, Clarity, and Carat. This will make it much easier when you sit down with your jeweler and discuss creating or choosing the perfect ring. The second part of this is knowing and trying on different ring style settings. Which setting is most durable and practical for you?

🔑 Tip: If you are not sure of these things, ask your jeweler. They will have no problem helping come to an informed and comfortable decision.

5. Lab-Grown Diamonds Are Real Diamonds and Often A Smarter Choice

Many brides wish they’d known about lab-grown diamonds earlier. They’re chemically identical to natural diamonds, usually cost 30–50% less, and are ethically sourced. They're a modern, responsible choice without cutting back on any luster, shine, or quality.

🔑 Insider Tip: The difference between natural and lab grown diamonds and gemstones are not apparent to the naked eye or on a standard diamond tester. You must use a professional gemology diamond tester machine in order to tell the difference in a stone and how it was created.

There’s no template to any specific “perfect” ring. What makes it perfect is that you love it and it is comfortable and practical for your everyday life. It is important to remember that you are the one who has to wear it forever, not anyone else. It can also be helpful for partners to go ring shopping together. This ensures that you will pick something that your partner will love and cherish forever.